Guy a question.
This is not whether there is or isn't. Would you list someones same-sex attraction , even if they have asked you to keep it secret as it would hurt a living family member?
I understand its an hypothetical but I want to see where , if any, your boundaries are?
I applaud your approach but I wouldn't follow it.
That seems at face value a simple question but it actually contains many unknowns.
A consideration would be whether the person had divulged the information to me in confidence or whether I had discovered the information through some other means.
If I had discovered the information in the course of research I would not be breaching any trust that the information would be kept secret.
As I live in a country where same sex attraction is not illegal that would remove many obstacles, but if I lived in a country where same sex attraction was illegal that in itself cause may problems (such as legal duty, consequences etc.).
There is therefore no legal duty to reveal the information and no legal ramifications involved for that “someone”.
The next consideration would have to be the relationship between “living family member” and myself.
If for instance the “living family member” was my wife that would be different than if the “living family member” was not connected with me.
It would also depend on whether the person was in a same sex relationship with their partner or not.
These are just four considerations of many that I would have to make before coming to my decision.
What I could say is there would be no reason to divulge the information for simply salacious reasons.
Cheers
Guy