Thank you everyone for looking at this on my behalf. It is wonderful to have other brains looking at it. My Sarah Trotter born around 1791 is in Yetholm, Rox in the 1841 census and dies after that. She calls her first legitimate son Henry and her daughter Catherine and is born England. She married a Robert Scott around 1828 but have not found it. He had been married before and had children. On the 1841 and 51 with them is a Catherine White/Trotter born Wooler, niece, and sending for the birth I find her mother was Annabell Trotter. The birth is in the Wooler baptisms as Catherine Trotter, illegitimate and born in the poorhouse, mother Isabella. She swings between Annabell, Isabella Ann and Isabella in the 41, 51 and 61 census and has two other illegitimate children, John 1843 and Isabella 1850. Catherine's birth cert agrees with the baptism except we have a father named James White, gardener. So this girl is Sarah's niece and I just thought it might give me the proof I needed if I could match her as daughter to one of Sarah's brothers born to Henry and Catherine.
Catherine died 1810 so Henry could have married again (he died 1838) but he also had a son Henry born 1796 who married a Margaret Hunter unless I am wrong and he married Jane. Do you have any other children Belfordian, to this couple?
I have never found Henry and Catherine's marriage as it too is probably in one of the sealed Northumberland parish records. He was of East Lilburn and her Easington when they had their Ford children.
If anybody has any thoughts on this conundrum, I would be grateful. When Eleanor, Henry and Catherine's daughter is born she is clearly down as second daughter. I believe Sarah to be the first daughter.
Barbara