« Reply #1 on: Sunday 03 April 16 10:51 BST (UK) »
Depending on how recently your relative was buried there, there is, as you have seen, a good chance the grave will no longer exist. I've not been there personally but I know a distant relative was trying to locate some of her relatives buried there in the early 1900s and found that the graves had been reused in the 1990s. I don't from memory think this was to do with building work that took place there, but just early reuse of graves.
These were private graves with memorials so unfortunately I suspect there is a good chance your relative's grave may no longer exist. I've a couple of relatives buried there as we have the memorial cards, from 1918 and 1919 respectively, and I doubt the graves still exist but can't say for sure.
It might be worth approaching the Cemetery and see if they can give you an idea if the grave does still exist, although how helpful they may be I couldn't say as have never tried contacting them, but when I contacted another of the cemeteries in the area by email, they didn't bother to respond to a quick question even though I'd been told they had previously been known to be helpful.
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