Looks like Anna Maria is the right one
Annie Maria Gilbert
Birth 22 MAY 1859
Christening 19 DEC 1860 Ilkeston, Derby, England
Father Samuel Gilbert
Mother Charlotte
Batch No C018459
same batch
Charlotte Gilbert
Birth 05 MAR 1861
Christening 09 APR 1862 Ilkeston, Derby, England
Father Samuel Gilbert
Mother Charlotte
Looks like they married a fair bit earlier
Maria Gilbert
Birth 14 JUL 1857
Christening 23 AUG 1857 Ilkeston, Derby, England
Father Samuel Gilbert
Mother Charlotte
This is interesting:-
Mary Ann Taylor Gilberts
Female
Birth 18 AUG 1824
Christening 08 SEP 1844 Ilkeston, Derby, England
Father Joseph Gilberts Family
Mother Elizabeth
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