Hi again, Indi,
I've just returned from a lightning visit to Hay, and did pop into the Kilvert Arms for something to eat - the food, especially the puddings, is great! There seemed to be 2 fish and chip shops, so I didn't enquire about your nephew Gareth, and I had a cup of tea in The Granary, which was near the Clock Tower, and might have been near your sister's house...
However, I had a lovely time blowing far too much money on books I'd struggled to track down without success elsewhere.
And Arranroots, you've probably already got all this, but I did find your husband's gt-gt-grandparents' gravestone in Clyro churchyard (we're talking Wales now, of course, not Herefordshire). Here is the inscription:
In loving memory of James Williams who died at Llanerch-Y-Coed in the parish of Clifford October 16th 1903 aged 80 years.
Also of Mary Ann his wife who died June 11th 1897 aged 67 years.
"There remaineth a rest to the people of God"
The gravestone is tilting forward at an angle of about 10-15 degrees, and the stone in front of it has fallen completely flat. Just behind it are the graves of the local gentry, the Baskervilles, with whom Conan Doyle apparently once stayed and perhaps were the inspiration for his famous story.
I also went to the farm at Llanerch-Y-Coed and spoke to the present owner, and will PM you with more details if you would like.
I had a wonderful time with my books and my little bit of family history...
Very best wishes,
Keith
p.s. also took some snaps of the grave and the farmhouse, but not with my digital camera which I'd forgotten to bring with me...