I also find it odd that Charles Henry stopped showing up in the Canada census at some point (off the top of my head I can't remember if it was 1861, 71 or 81) but his wife was still being recorded as married, not widowed. She moved at some point from Compton to another district I think, at one point being recorded as Phebe Bell, and another time as Amanuel Bell. Her grave refers to her as "wife of HC Bell", but I can't find his grave anywhere I've looked. He just sort of disappeared.