Hi Andrea
Thanks, I'll tell you the tale (there had to be one!!)
1 March 1873 at The Parish Church, Byker
Robert MINIKIN of full age Bachelor Guard of this Parish father Robert MINIKIN Cartman
married
Margaret YOUNG of full age Spinster father John YOUNG Hind
By 1881 Margaret's surname is STOVES although she doesn't marry William STOVES until 1884. With her is a MINIKIN daughter b 1873 and a STOVES son b 1880.
There is a death for a Robert MINIKIN in 1875 age 28 registered Tynemouth, but there were MINIKINs at Howden.
A search of the 1871 Census gave me the Robert you mentioned, but I have that Robert on Census 1861-1901 and if I'm right and my Robert died before 1881 then that can't be him. I've also searched the 1871 Census for Byker page by page and there are no MINIKIN families there.
I am accumulating all Census data for all MINIKIN families in Newcastle and the 1851 Byker and St Andrews is about the only ones left to search.
With not having my Robert MINIKIN on any Census I have little to work with and of course he could have come from another County. I have a possible family in 1861 and 1871 in Co Durham, but nothing yet to link him to there.
I'd welcome any suggestions. Bet you wish you hadn't asked!!
Many thanks
Helen K