Hi Lorraine,
Yes, I have also found Julia's story after her 1883 Nestor marriage to be a mystery until Broken Hill.
As you probably read from the above thread, I was trying to work out whether the 'Thomas Nestor' she married was the one who died, aged 24 years, in Sydney Hospital from TB on 23rd December 1888 or another 'Thomas Nestor' who had a long history of petty crime in Sydney (see Trove) at least until 1893 when he was sent to Bathurst Gaol as 'Thomas Hynes' (nee Nestor). After that, I've lost any trace of him (maybe because of another name change or because he came to a 'messy' end!).
So, could the two Nestor boys, James and John, born 1888 and 1894, have both been illegitimate? Were the Broken Hill birth transcripts you mentioned their Birth Certificates?
Finally, I haven't been able to find any documents on her after 1898 - however, there is a family story from my older cousin who said that Everest came home one day with the young boys and said to his wife, Sarah, 'we're going to have to raise them now...' There is evidence that they assumed the Anseline surname - I think I got that off Ancestry but will check again.
That information you have on Louis Anseline is indeed interesting - were the 25 other gold seekers, on the ship, named or were they just '25 others'? (Incidentally, on the other RootsChat thread, 'Jules F Anseline, Mauritius, gold and slaves' from August this year, there is a bit more on Louis Cambronne Anseline, for your information).
Good luck with the St Vincents Hospital enquiry (I phoned Sydney Hospital some years ago to ask about any archival records on Jules Francois' terminal care there but was greeted with a polite chuckle!)
I know we're jumping about a bit here, but, in relation to Mary's second husband, Charles Gray McRae (your ancestor), I read somewhere he was born in Cleveland, Ohio, in the USA but have lost track of the source. Did you ever track his birthplace down to Cleveland?
Sorry - there are 4 questions there for you thoughts!
There are so many interesting potential stories in our family history, but I guess we should try and stay focussed!
Paul.