I just came home from hospital Please bear with me. I am giving you the information that I have. It may not be as complete as you wish, but It is all that I have.
Hi Jule. Sorry to hear you have been in hospital.
I don't think people are pressing you for more information. Rather they are asking you where you got the information that you already have. There is a difference.
When you have time, if you can read through the thread and answer the questions that have been asked, that will help us to help you further.
As an example, in the 1871 cenus you say you have the family in Lesmahagow .... People are spending hours trying to find this family in this census in this place, without success, which is why it is very useful if you can help us out a bit. Keeping with this example, as you know, the Scottish census on pay sites like Ancestry is transcription only. To see the originals you need to pay for credits on Scotlands People. The transcriptions are often not good which can make finding people impossible. Perhaps you have a copy of the census which you purchased from Scotlands People which you can share with us?
There is no rush - answer the questions at your own pace. Even if you were given a family tree from someone else, and you don't know where they found certain pieces of information, let us know, and if the tree is online, could you please provide a link to it?
Added: great find Monica.