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Who else gets angry when they read things like this
« on: Sunday 19 May 19 16:48 BST (UK) »
Its a long time ago and it cannot be rectified.. but it is so sad when you come across a record like this...

this was -- an actual human being if only for an hour.. and has only ever been known as this..

so very sad


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Re: Who else gets angry when they read things like this
« Reply #1 on: Sunday 19 May 19 17:40 BST (UK) »
Not at all angry.

It's a statement of fact, nothing more , nothing less.
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Re: Who else gets angry when they read things like this
« Reply #2 on: Sunday 19 May 19 18:04 BST (UK) »
I think you are putting a modern connotation onto a word which would not have caused offence at the time it was written.

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Re: Who else gets angry when they read things like this
« Reply #3 on: Sunday 19 May 19 18:10 BST (UK) »
No. Not angry at all.

Just another word that has changed in connotation over the years.
Just like "gay" and "sick".
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Re: Who else gets angry when they read things like this
« Reply #4 on: Sunday 19 May 19 18:13 BST (UK) »
Its a long time ago and it cannot be rectified.. but it is so sad when you come across a record like this...
this was -- an actual human being if only for an hour.. and has only ever been known as this..
so very sad

xin

It is sad the baby only lived an hour, but at least he was given a name unlike thousands of still born babies who were not even named.

What I do find sad is that in the 21st century people still miss-understand the true meaning of the legal term bastard and dwell on the derogatory undertones the word assumed by use by hypocrites and the ill-informed.

The word bastard simply means the persons parents were not married to each other when he/she was born, unlike illegitimate which means the child is not a legal or allowable child.

There were reasons a child was described as a bastard in the parish register and one was because the parish was responsible for his/her upbringing if his/her parents could not or would not provide, that word written in the birth register provided a legal indisputable safety net for him/her when all else failed.

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Re: Who else gets angry when they read things like this
« Reply #5 on: Sunday 19 May 19 18:32 BST (UK) »
I do, I do realise in times gone by that is the word that was used but it makes me feel uncomfortable, I heard someone say they were a bastard child of someone or other, I felt quite sorry for the person in this modern age, it is not the childs fault

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Re: Who else gets angry when they read things like this
« Reply #7 on: Sunday 19 May 19 19:25 BST (UK) »
He was not a forgotten child-- he IS named in the Register

I have many infant deaths just recorded as "A child of ..."

I think that is sadder that the child was not even named

But it does not make me angry -- it was just how things were at that time
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