Iv'e updated a little bit of info.
The parents are James Shand b1794 in New Deer and Margaret Whyte b1795 in Methlick.
On the 1841 census, the family was in the Parish of Methlick. The name, street, road they lived on was Sessnie. Per scotlandpeoples.gov. James Shand was 13.
On 1851 census, the family was in the Parish of Methlick. The name, street, road they lived on was Sessnie. Per scotlandpeoples.gov. James Shand was 23.
In 1859 Elizabeth Kilgour dies.
James Shand b1794 had three wives. Margaret Whyte m1820, Elizabeth Kilgour m1837 and Jane Brand m1862.
On 1861 census, the family was in the Parish of Methlick. The name, street, road they lived on was at Auchencrieve/Sessnie. Per scotlandpeoples.gov. No James Shand b1828
James Shand b1794 is a widow.
In 1862 James Shand b1794 marries Jane Brand b1836. Interesting that she is younger than many of his children. Also, it seems it is the same Jane Brand b1836 who is right next door to them on the 1851 census at Goosepoole.
On the 1871 census, the family was in the Parish of Methlick. The name, street, road they lived on was at Sessnie. Per scotlandpeoples.gov. No James Shand b1828.
I did look at the 1873 will and testaments for James Shand b1794. It does not mention his son James but all of his wives and Alexander Shand. I can't find anything on a James Shand b1828 in Scotland past 1851. Yes there is the 1854 re-Baptism records but that doesn't indicate that James is their in Scotland in 1854. There are 13 James Shand's age 32-38 on the 1861 census. I have looked at 6 of them. They don't fit the James Shand b1828 who would have been 33 in 1861.
The James Forbes Leith connection came about due to the fact I am related to the Methlick Shands. I got a DNA match from a McBride family who was married a Margaret Shand who was born in Toronto, Canada. Her father was James Forbes Leith Shand b1855 in Montreal, Quebec. His father was named J.F.L. Shand. I am assuming, it was James Forbes Leith Shand. He was born in Scotland. He died in 1856, a year after his son was born. His death date was 10 Jun 1856 in Montreal, Quebec. Same city/area as son's birth. I have his headstone. It says from Aberdeen, Scotland.
Based on the death date, there is only one James Shand born in Scotland that fits. James Shand b14 Dec 1828. Per scotlandpeoples.gov and everywhere else I could think to look. Just happens to be a family I know I'm related to.
I know the J.F.L Shand b1828 in Scotland who died in Montreal may not be the James Shand b14 Dec 1828 in Methlick. It's the best I got right now. I always try to disprove the facts so I can make sure it is an accurate connection.
That's why I need your help.
Thank you for all of you time.
Scott Shand
Re 1854.
It is very common in 1854 to find groups of earlier family baptisms being recorded together in the parish register. The children were baptised much earlier, but the baptisms had never been noted in the register. The motive for recording them in 1854 was the coming of statutory registration of births in 1855.