Hi, I'm Betty's cousin. We are going wider, we're each searching separately and then trying to compare notes on anything interesting.
So our Samuel said he was 19 when he married in December 1859. By census 1861 he's listed as in the army, age 21, in a barracks of men who are all aged 21.
So that should put our Samuel's birth between December to about March (maybe to June) 1840 for registration on BMD.
Samuel puts different things for his place of birth on censuses, all but one say Denbighshre. Llanarmon, Wrexham, Denbigh. Except for the odd one out where he's listed as Cardiff.
So we focused on a Samuel, son of Samuel, born in Llanarmon yn Ial, Denbighshire. The only problem is that that Samuel was born about April 1839 and his father wasn't a publican but a nailer.
I don't particularly care that the Llanarmon yn Ial Samuel was a nailer rather than publican -- maybe our Samuel thought it sounded more impressive to tell his fiancee that his dad was a publican instead of a nailer? But that doesn't fix the problem with the month of birth.
It seems from eyeballing all these Samuel Jones's in the censuses that every single one is 'taken', ie it's possible to follow them from census to census. But our one should disappear in 1861 when he's already joined the army. Samuel son of Samuel and Eleanor does disappear and hasn't been claimed by any other family trees on Ancestry. All the other trees on Ancestry that have the Samuel and Eleanor family have assigned the incorrect son Samuel to their family. That means that their Samuel hasn't been correctly located in the 1851 census, and neither has our Samuel. It would be ideal if they were one and the same. But how can they be the same one if one was born April 1839 and the other wasn't born for another 7 months?