If Jewish people do say ” You always know who your mother is ,your father——-?” then, again it seems to be yet another sweeping statement about paternity and can be quite hurtful.
Coombs that statement was said to me in Manchester’s beautiful Spanish and Portuguese Synagogue on Cheetham Hill Road , now a museum to the life of the many immigrants who had fled the pogroms etc in 19C Europe.
As they prospered they moved out of central M/c to suburbs like Whitefield and Prestwich where there is an invisible cordon, for Orthodox Jews to conduct their lives according to the strict Mosaic laws.
I was enquiring about searching for the Jewish family after whose little girl I got my name with its unusual spelling.
She and I were born the same day ,her father wanted to commemorate the event and asked that I be named after his baby.
There was supposed to be an endowment but I could imagine there most probably wasn’t as his business was mainly with his German Jewish family
in Germany.
I had no wish to pursue that aspect but was just curious as to their second name ,and so asked a guide at the museum.A Jewish lady.
It was she who said the mother’s line is so important and said what I put in my post.
I did find who she was but left it at that.
No idea what happened to them.Hope in 1937 they did not go to Germany!
A newspaper cutting from the time was lost after my Dad died and the house was cleared.
If you have never looked at “ Old Jews telling Jewish jokes” , well you have missed hilarious jokes said in a special way and laughing at them until you feel exhausted.
All directed at themselves and their culture .
I was at school with many Jewish girls in North Manchester.
My quote was not in any way meant to be derogatory ,to Jewish people nor was it misanthropic ,meaning specifically men rather than mankind .
Wish you well with your research.
And if you have bought any new clothes recently I wish you well to wear them.
Viktoria.