Found the c1861, Looby, my record is showing Janet Pittle 😂 but it is a transcription! Will follow up on this lead more, shame no marriage record but hey ho! Also thanks for link Scotmum re irregular marriages, I believe that it’s practiced in Belgium but called something else if my memory serves, so unbeknownst I had heard of this before, it was reading your link that put 2&2 together
Georgina becoming a Bendle in My Heritage 👍🏻 It was the Bendles that started me on this!
Thank you so much for your time!