Hi everyone, it is a while since I visited this forum, but I'm wondering if someone can point me in a good direction please.
My maternal grandmother was born in Melbourne Australia in 1891. No father was named, the mother was said to be a 19 year old girl named Mary McDonald, but we have reason to suspect that surname may not be genuine. She was subsequently adopted, and as far as my mother knew, her mother was the child of these adoptive parents.
I haven't been able to trace any plausible Mary McDonalds. I have had my atDNA and mtDNA tested with FTDNA and Ancestry. I have many matches, but most are paternal or via my maternal grandfather. The mtDNA suggests that my grandmother's mother came from Ireland - I have just one person who matches on both atDNA and mtDNA and his family comes from Ireland as do many in my H13a2b haplogroup.
I have tried tracing this match's family back in Ireland but it is very difficult because of so many common names - his immediate ancestors inlude Michael Mannix and Mary McManus, names which can be hard to trace.
I haven't delved too deeply into techniques people use for their own adoptions, but the little I have read relates to recent adoptions (self or parents) and seems to depend on techniques where living relations are relatively close (e.g. first cousins) and can be found and asked to test, and where there may still be people alive who can recall events back at the time.
But in my case, I'm trying to go back 130 years when there weren't adoption records, everyone concerned is no longer with us, and common ancestors are likely 4 or 5 generations back. I have tried with several atDNA matches to trace their tree back and then follow the large number of descendents forward again, but it is a mammoth task and I haven't been successful.
I'm wondering whether there a clustering techniques, like DNA Painter, or tools on Gedmatch that can help with any of this, or is it either give up or do the hard hard slog of tracing many many families in the hope that one turns up a result?
Can anyone point me, please, to a book or a website that gives a comprehensive overview of techniques that might be tried by someone in my position? Thanks for any help you can offer.