I don't know if this is confusing or not but I have my own DNA on 3 different sites and the matches are very different, both in numbers and in the apparent nationalities of the matches. I think it may not be helpful to list these but if anyone thinks it is, I will.
Angela, I think I will probably keep the survey to Ancestry for consistency purposes, but I assume in general, most people will have most matches on Ancestry, then perhaps MyHeritage, followed by 23andme and LivingDNA? On Ancestry, as far as I know it is not possible to categorize by nation of residence as most people do not list it, but on MyHeritage it seems to be shown by default and you can filter by it, which is an interesting feature, especially if you have ancestry from outside GB. A lot of people of British descent seem to see an unusually high level of Scandinavian matches on MyHeritage but no one seems to quite know why. I did find someone who did a study of their matches compared to their parents which suggested a high percentage of MH matches with small largest segment were false matches.
The other annoying thing about the Ancestry declared numbers is that the figure given for "4th cousins or closer" actually, on inspection, appears to consist mainly of matches in the category of "4th to 6th cousin" when listed.
Not sure what you mean on this - the number I get on the main DNA page (i.e. if I click DNA at the top) matches what I then see if I click the Shared DNA filter at the top and then select the '4th cousin or closer' button?