I have been fruitlessly searching for the birth of an Elizabeth Young who married in 1793 to Charles Bolden [Boulding] in Aldington Kent who was born circa 1771 (give or take a year or two).
From the 1841 census I know she was born in Kent.
Charls Bolding Male 70 1771 Kent, England
Elizabeth Bolding Female 70 1771 Kent, England
At her death in Aldington 1849 as she was noted as "age 78 buried Elizabeth Boulden or Bolding" which confirm 1771 as her birth date.
I have found some nearby baptsied Elizabeth Youngs but I have excluded most of them for either dying as children or for marrying :
CMB Charing
1769 Jan 8 Elizabeth dau of Ann Young - d1775 Charing
1775 Mar 30 bur Eliz Young
CMB Newington next Hythe
1766 Aug 24 (birth 5 Aug) Elizabeth dau of Richard & Mary Young
1778 Mar 8 bur Elizabeth dau of Richard & Mary Young
CMB Lympne
[Monks Horton: 1771 Mar 8 William Young (x) & Catherine Codham (c)] - [clearly not the William Young who signed as witness at Charles B's wedding]
1772 Mar 8 Elizabeth dau of William & Catherine Young
1772 Mar 22 bur Elizabeth dau of William & Catherine Young
CMB Molash
1769 Apr 16 Elizabeth dau of Robert & Mary Young [This Elizabeth appears to marry in Molash in 1790 with father Robert as witness]
I have one other clue to help. At her wedding to Charles Bolden (both she and Charles sign with an X) her witness is a William Young which shows a very confident signature.
So perhaps William Young was her father or brother so I started examining the marriages of William Youngs to compare the signatures and I think I may have been successful because in 1765 in nearby New Romney a William Young, Corporal in the 10th Regiment of Dragoons, signs with a very similar signature.
I am reasonaby confident this is one and the same William Young and a good date a marriage just 5 years before Elizabeth's birth.
A search for baptism of the children of Wm & Sarah Young reveal some children in Elmsted and Stowting but I see the marriage of another Wm Young & Sarah Fordred in 1768 and can only assume they are the parents of the children in Elmsted and Stowting not the soldier William.
So I can find no obvious children of (my) William & Sarah Young, the soldier and his wife. This begs the question, would a soldier have his children baptised in an army camp or elsewhere? Or maybe not even baptised? Any suggestions?