2nd Cousin 1 x rem Derek j Hender gone off the radar

[tornado]

Please can anyone help to track my 2nd Cousin 1 x rem Derek John Hender b 1932 in Camden London?. All i know about him is that his Parents were Claude Hender (Policeman/Sergeant) and Ivy Hender . I am not subscribed to Ancestry at present and records are so few. If i could track him then i would know if he had any Family . Then add it all to my F history records. Thanking you all.

[nanny jan]

There is a death in 1988 in Camden; name and birth year match.

Parents in 1939 shown as Alexander and Ivy. 

You could search for any possible marriage using FreeBMD.

[CaroleW]

Have you used freebmd to search for any marriage/children?  Possible one in 1954

His death is on freebmd in 1988

Have you looked if he left a will?   https://www.gov.uk/search-will-probate

None of the above require a subscription

[tornado]

Thank you both for your advice/contributions. This is something i will try and maybe i will be lucky . Otherwise i welcome any more ideas reg Derek.

[tornado]

This latest news reg Derek is appreciated. The Surrey Marriage location sounds promising as Derek lived in Camden /London area . As for Rhona i will try to check her out somehow. Many thanks so far .

[Talacharn]

Possible second marriage for Rhona:
Marriage: Rhona M Hender . Alan G Haley
Jan-Feb 1972 . Tiverton, Devon . Volume 7a . Page1475

If the marriage and second marriage are correct, this is her:
Death: Ms Rhona Margaret Haley . 73 (22 Sep 1934)
7 Mar 2007 . Tiverton, Devon (EX16 5)

Probate: Rhona Margaret Haley . 7 March 2007 . Probate 9 May 2007 . 2457175 . Bristol

This seems to be her:
Birth: Rhona M Holmes
Oct-Dec 1934 . Battersea, London . Volume 1d . Page 484

Derek John Hender
HENDER, Derek John of 3 Manitoba Gdns, Cullompton, Devon died 8 June 1988. Administration Bristol 4 August. Not exceeding £70,000 8880603439M

This is not making sense.
Derek’s death was registered in London, when Administration says he lived in Cullompton, Devon. The name, initial and date fit.

[ShaunJ]

Grave photo https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/123925586/derek-john-hender

[Talacharn]

Did they have homes in London and Devon, or was he visiting London? Clearly Rhona was born in London and died in Devon. It seems there is a son born 1959 N.E. Surrey, so probably still alive. In 1981, he married in mid-Devon. I have sent you a PM with that information.

Added: These are his parents:
Marriage: Alexander J C Hender . Ivy M Aslett
Apr-Jun 1926 . Lambeth, London . Volume 1d . Page 555

Also: There was a brother:
Birth: Alexander H Hender . mmn Aslett
Apr-Jun 1928 . Wandsworth . Volume 1d . Page 818

[Talacharn]

The grave ShaunJ found could fit in being buried alone after divorce.

The brother:
Marriage: Alexander H Hender . Pamela A Lisle
Apr-Jun 1954 . Surrey North Eastern . Volume 5g . Page 978
They had a son CVA Hender born in 1958 Banbury and a possible marriage in 1992, so probably still alive.