Mary Hilda Clayden....Marriage

[Del 80]

Trying to find the marriage, of Mary Hilda Clayden, to John Ayto....she was born about 1932/33 in Surrey England, and emigrated to NZ in 1956 I  think....Thanks...

[rosie99]

Are you sure that she has died as otherwise you will need to remove her name from your heading and post

[Del 80]

Yes, she sadly passed away in April 2022.....widow of the late John Ayto....I should explain, it's really the parents of her husband John Ayto that I am searching for.......

[rosie99]

Did John die in 2003 - born 1911 

[Del 80]

I am not sure....that's what I'm trying to find out.....I thought I had all of the NZ Ayto's on my tree....but this John seems  to be missing........I do have a John Ayto 1911-2003, but have him married to a Mabel E Oram 1916-2013......perhaps he married twice ?....

[rosie99]

Mabel died in 2013 so unlikely to be the right John unless they divorced.

[Del 80]

Yes, that's what I thought....

[Del 80]

Well, I don't think it can be the John Ayto 1911-2003, as when he died his widow is given as Mabel E Ayto.....very strange......

[rosie99]

Are the rules different in NZ to the UK for showing indexes for BMD in the 1900's.  I have just tried a search for the 1950's onwards with no surnames and got no results