Today, I called Adam at St. James Cemetery back to see if they had further information regarding the dates of death of William Lennox and his wife Mary, nee Thompson. I gave them the locations of the burial plots.
Good news and bad news. They said Mary died Nov 19, 1884 in Mimico, of apoplexy and that she was born in Ireland. They then said William died Jan 19, 1859. I told them that was not possible as he was on the 1871 census. They then told me that buried with them is a son William, who drowned, age 6.5, no date of death given. I told them the date of death in 1859 must be for the son, as he would then be born abt 1852 which fits after their marriage in 1850 and between the births of John Hartford Lennox in 1850 and daughter Margaret J. in 1854. Makes sense to me.
They then encouraged me to get back to the funeral home so I did. They again said that their records don't go back that far. I asked how far back they go and they said 1998. That I should call the City of Toronto of Archives for that information and I would have to be next-of-kin. I told them there is no one alive who would be next-of-kin for someone who died abt 1880.
Anyway, maybe someone out there can help me now. If Mary died in 1884 in Mimico, she should be on the 1881 census and we have never been able to find the family in 1881. Maybe now we can. Her youngest son James Thompson Lennox born Jan 5, 1870 would likely be with her. Before today, we didn't know if either William or Mary was alive in 1881.
Thanks for any help
Peggy