I think I am getting very confused. (not unusual!
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Looking at BARFOOT children born with mmn BEND (and these only as "exact", not with similar spellings):
1878 unnamed male Melton Mowbray (died 1878)
1878 Frederick George Melton Mowbray (died 1878)
1880 Frederick George Wandsworth
1882 Louisa Sculcoates
1883 Walter Sculcoates
1888 Edward Runcorn
1892 Sam Wharfedale
1894 Lily Chorley
Edward (born 6 Sept 1888) and Sam BARFOOT (born 6 May 1892) are both baptised 7 Aug 1900 at Birstall - parents George and Emma.
Lily BARFOOT (born 28 May 1894) is baptised 22 July 1897 at Birstall - parents George and Emma.
In 1911, Lily BARFOOT (16, Chorley) is with mother Emma BARFOOT (55, wid, Bottesford, Leicester) who says she has 3 children living, none died, married 31 years (from present marriage, though of course, she says widowed). Other children with them are Sam (18, Yeadon) and Jane (13, Killimarsh).
Ok, so I'm thinking perhaps 2 sisters Emma and Fanny (both from Bottesford on census records) married 2 brothers George and Frederick, however ...
Lily BARFOOT marries Harold SHARPLES on 8 Feb 1919, she says her father is Frederick BARFOOT, deceased, engine driver.
I'll do a bit more looking and thinking.
Modified to add:
Pretty sure there is another daughter Ellen BARFOOT who dies at Stairfoot in 1898 aged 13 years, 10 months daughter of Frederick George BARFOOT, deceased, foreman excavator - according to death notice 16 July 1898 Barnsley Chronicle.