Cannot find a Guernsey marriage anywhere - unusual surname, can you find it?!

[nicdigby]

I have tried and so far failed to find any mention of Eliza for the 1911 census in case it gave clues - possible record of her in a Portsmouth asylum.

You did find the right 1911 census for Eliza.
Very shortly after her husband's ship went missing, Eliza gave birth to another child, Stella May.
On this birth record, Eliza gives her full name as Eliza Lucy Alice Love.  See attached.

Eliza Lucy Alice Love died in the "lunatic asylum" in 1921.  See attached.  She could have been seeking medical help, as she was fighting TB for years.

So this poor woman's life, in short, was losing a 4 yr old in 1893 (Lilly Lindsey), waiting "forever" in 1899 to find her husband was lost at sea followed almost immediately by giving birth to a daughter that died very soon after, losing both sons to orphanages, (and not even the same orphanage), then suffering for years with TB until it killed her.   

The daughter that did remain with her on the 1901 census, Lilian Queenie Love, seems to be this one:  https://discovery.nationalarchives.gov.uk/details/r/D7431627 , in the British Women's Royal Naval Service from 1918 - 1919.  If you register there, you can download it for free.  There is not much on it, except she lists a friend as her next of kin.  That could hint at her mom being very sick at the time.

In 1901, the oldest son, Lawrence Francis Love, was in a British Orphan Asylum in Slough, Bucks.
This site describes it :  https://www.childrenshomes.org.uk/BritishOrphan/
About 2/3 of the way down on that link, it gives the object of the orphanage, and mentions that for entry, among other things, the marriage certificate of the parents must be produced, so at least you know there was a marriage!

Fabulous, thank you. I knew about the boys being sent to different orphanages. Poor woman.

Can you please tell me where you found your two attached images as I’d like to have a look at the whole images?

[bbart]

Can you please tell me where you found your two attached images as I’d like to have a look at the whole images?

They are "digital images" from the GRO.  https://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/
The digital images are inexpensive, but do not include the column headers (although you can "see" headers when you first view it).
You would have to order the more expensive PDF file to have that included.

[garstonite]

have a look through these - 132 results
https://en.geneanet.org/fonds/individus/?size=10&sexe=&nom=queripel&ignore_each_patronyme=&prenom=&prenom_operateur=or&ignore_each_prenom=&place__0__=&zonegeo__0__=Guernsey%2C+Channel+Islands%2C+United+Kingdom&country__0__=GBR&region__0__=CHI&subregion__0__=GSY&place__1__=&zonegeo__1__=&country__1__=&region__1__=&subregion__1__=&place__2__=&zonegeo__2__=&country__2__=&region__2__=&subregion__2__=&place__3__=&zonegeo__3__=&country__3__=&region__3__=&subregion__3__=&place__4__=&zonegeo__4__=&country__4__=&region__4__=&subregion__4__=&type_periode=between&from=&to=&exact_month=&exact_day=&exact_year=&go=1

[nicdigby]

Can you please tell me where you found your two attached images as I’d like to have a look at the whole images?

They are "digital images" from the GRO.  https://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/
The digital images are inexpensive, but do not include the column headers (although you can "see" headers when you first view it).
You would have to order the more expensive PDF file to have that included.

That's great, thanks very much for you help with this, much appreciated

[nicdigby]

have a look through these - 132 results
https://en.geneanet.org/fonds/individus/?size=10&sexe=&nom=queripel&ignore_each_patronyme=&prenom=&prenom_operateur=or&ignore_each_prenom=&place__0__=&zonegeo__0__=Guernsey%2C+Channel+Islands%2C+United+Kingdom&country__0__=GBR&region__0__=CHI&subregion__0__=GSY&place__1__=&zonegeo__1__=&country__1__=&region__1__=&subregion__1__=&place__2__=&zonegeo__2__=&country__2__=&region__2__=&subregion__2__=&place__3__=&zonegeo__3__=&country__3__=&region__3__=&subregion__3__=&place__4__=&zonegeo__4__=&country__4__=&region__4__=&subregion__4__=&type_periode=between&from=&to=&exact_month=&exact_day=&exact_year=&go=1

Than you, she's there under "Qeripel' ....unfortunately it turns out that the source is just an Ancestry tree with less info than I already know, and no marriage.

[softly softly]

Info only, Lawrence Francis Love went on to marry Edith E Contelo dq 1914 Southampton. His wife appears in 1921 with her mother, no Lawrence. They do appear together in 1939.

SS

[nicdigby]

Info only, Lawrence Francis Love went on to marry Edith E Contelo dq 1914 Southampton. His wife appears in 1921 with her mother, no Lawrence. They do appear together in 1939.

SS

Thanks SS, I had found that info

[seahall]

Hi All.

nicdigby there is a Guernsey Family History page here which may help in the future or other rootchatters.

http://www.rootschat.com/links/01t44/

I have had a lot of help recently from the La Societe Guernsey https://societe.org.gg/wp/family-history/

Sandy

[nicdigby]

Hi All.

nicdigby there is a Guernsey Family History page here which may help in the future or other rootchatters.

http://www.rootschat.com/links/01t44/

I have had a lot of help recently from the La Societe Guernsey https://societe.org.gg/wp/family-history/

Sandy

Thank you