Boiled frog syndrome is more than curiousity.
Per Google - It is a metaphor used to illustrate how people can fail to recognize and react to gradual changes in their environment, even when those changes are ultimately detrimental.
How that metaphor applies to this post is beyond me

As already established in earlier replies- the witness to the 1919 marriage is unconnected to your family history but appears to be the sister of a gangster - also unconnected to your FH.
Whilst it's natural to sometimes research these type of people out of curiosity - it is questionable whether you should waste other peoples time & resources in that research.
Your local library will have free Ancestry access & you have already been advised to use the birthdate on the 1939 register or buy the marriage cert.