Hi
Thank you all very much for your help!
Worthen is a confusing area, in 1851 it is in Shropshire, in 71 it is in Wales and in the rest of the census it is in Shropshire.
Allie thank you for looking up 41, that was great! Although it has added some confusion.
Here is the story -
My 2x great grandfather was Richard Gardner B:1856 in Wentnor.
His parents were Samuel(b:1829 Surrey) and Eliza(b:1837, Worthen) who were married in 1856 in Trelystan (just over the border from Worthen).
I know everything about the family from 1861 onwards, but the info. on Eliza before that is confusing
Apart from living in Wentor in 1861, they lived in Worthen for every other census and always recorded Eliza as being born there. Samuel died in 1863 and she married two more times.
The confusion comes in finding Eliza's maiden name and parents. (Due to lack of funds and being in Australia I was trying to do it through census etc. before investing in certificates.)
In 1871 Eliza (husband now Ben Wardman) is living at Meadowtown Hill, Worthen. In the next house are Richard (b:1813, North Lydbury) and Elizabeth (b: 1811, Worthen) Williams, In the house with them is Samuel Gardner (Eliza's second son) listed as a grandson.
I can't find the Williams in 1861, but Eliza and Samuel have a Martha Williams (b:1847 in Worthen) living with them. In 1851 Martha aged 4 is living in Meadowtown with Richard and Elizabeth, although I haven't seen the page so I don't know if there is anyone else in in the house.
The only marriage records I can find for Samuel Gardner and an Eliza lists Eliza's surname as Davies, her father being William Davies, the dates of the wedding, the area, Samuel's father and their ages all fit.
I thought maybe, William died and Elizabeth then married Richard Williams There is a marriage in the church in Trelystan in 1838 between an Elizabeth Gough and William Davies were Elizabeth's father is listed as Richard Williams!. There is the possibility that the names were listed the wrong way round. Maybe Eliza was illigitamate, brought up by grandparents or something? There are quite a few marriages in subsequent years between Elizabeth Davies and Richard Williams.
Just as a small thing in every census from 1871 on there is a Thomas Davies and family living either next door or in the same street, he could be a relative, although I know davies is a common name.
I think I will eventually have to give up the detective work, admit defeat, get some patience and wait until I can get some certificates
So Allie, your info. on an Elizabeth Simmonds aged 4, is confusing as that would be the right age for Eliza, but the name Simmonds has never come into it before. I wondered if you could look at Worthen again in 1841 and see if there are any Eliza Davies or Williams in Meaodwtown?
I'd welcome any ideas, suggestions or info.
Thanks a lot
Wendy