Hi Everyone,
A few weeks ago I travelled to the North Norfolk coast with a very good friend of mine so that he could show me the grave of his grandparents that he'd not visited since childhood. They were buried in 1958 and 1965 respectively in the same plot in the local town cemetery. We were armed with the exact section and plot number, but when we stood in that precise place, there was just uninterrupted grass; and when we gazed around we noticed that there were indeed other gaps or spaces in the ordered lines. All of the graves in this section had been used in a period 40-odd years ago.
Once we'd got over our disappointment, we began to wonder who exactly takes responsibility for anything happening to a fairly recent grave like this once the money has been paid over - is it the local authority, the undertaker, the stonemason?
We imagined that perhaps the soil underneath had not been very stable and the stone/s had perhaps toppled over and had eventually been removed.
Has anybody had similar experiences, or could answer any of these bemused questions? There was no evidence of any vandalism whatsoever, by the way...
Very best wishes,
Keith