Thankyou very much for your speedy reply, you are a star! I am coming up to Motherwell in April, and thought I could visit these if possible, I will find out where it is not too familiar with Cambusnethan. Poor Jane Blair, Iam so sad her grave can not be found, my heart goes out to her, she lived in the same address as Henry and Agnes when all this trauma was going on, nurse her other remaining nephews (George, my ancester and Archibald, who is in your list as dying at 33years old) until she was 60ish in 1886, in the family house in Caledonian Road, I owe her a lot and would not be here if she hadnt been so dedicated to the family!
So a paupers grave seems not right as Archibald and George would have surely looked after her?? Anyway, I also have Muirhead Leggat etc... spouses of the McPhail family to search so will continue I am so grateful for the rootschat site you are all very dedicated and we are glad you are there. June PS Re: Henry and Agnes marriage in Ireland Parish of Banagher is the next line of search have proof of the date of marriage its just getting the transcript for more info about their parents so I have lots to do.