Hi All,
Would just like your opinions.
I have a relative who was married twice and had children both times. I have never found a divorce certificate or marriage certificate for his 2nd marriage so it could have been bigamy as his first wife was not dead - would make her a bigamist and liar too as she remarried later on and I have the certificate! About 4 years ago I was contacted by a lady and we established that we share the same relative, this lady said she and her siblings thought there were skeletons in the family as the "elders" would not talk about things from the past. I tactfully said I knew a lot but she might not like everything, long story short, she asked and didn't like it and I never heard from her again but that was her choice and I really don't mind.
My question, I am a member on another site (like most of us are) and had some hints and on looking at them this relative crops up again. There was a link to a tree open to the public and there he with his first wife (that one I know was legal) and their children but no mention of the 2nd wife and children.
Would you see it as someone being helpful if contacted and told about the 2nd wife (possible illegal / bigamous marriage) and children or not want to know. should I leave it alone ? I know that this is not the same woman who contacted me before plus this individual lives in the USA whereas the other lady lived in the UK.
I would want to know but don't want to upset this person I have never had contact with.
GfL