Hi Ian, Sorry for late response, unfortunately work got in the way
I thank you for trying to help, it seems with my gr gr grandfather I think I am getting somewhere and then continue to hit brick walls, it seems around that time in NYC there are possibly a few whilemenia that keep popping up.
All this Norway link started when DNA came back for my mum having 22% Norwegian and a link I found was Irene Jacobs born in NY who is 2-4th cousin of my mum..... At times I have to remember that all this time and work is just to find a birth record for her grandfather Alexander born in Banff, Scotland in 1869. - the amount of times I have gone back to basics then ended up going round in circles - very frustrating all in the name of a Hobbie!!
Thank you again for all your help, I wont give up and one day I hope I have the answers.