Hello Anne,
Whilst browsing through the MI's for Cottingham (a booklet published by the East Yorkshire FHS) for my own ancestors I came across the following that I thought might interest you.
In affectionate remembrance of ELLEN the beloved wife of CHRISTOPHER TRAIN of Woodmansey who departed this life September 4th 1864 aged 67 years.
"A tender mother in her life, A virtuous and a loving wife, In love she lived in peace she died, Her life was ask'd but God denied"
Also CHRISTOPHER husband of the above who departed this life September 14th 1874 aged 77 years.
"Affection says we loth to part, Nor can we well from tears refrain, But this reflection cheers the heart, We only part to meet again".
These MI's are checked against the Parish Registers and the Parish Register entries are
1864 Sep 7 Ellen Train, Woodmansey aged 69
1874 Sep 16 Christopher Train, Hull late of Dunswell aged 79
Bee