Can you help? is this the right family, what do you think?

[newbie]

Hello,
Can anyone give some help or advice please?


1st problem : I can't find Eliza E Ellender on the 1871 census.
Eliza b circa 1853 Paddington (from the 1861 census)
parents George and Sarah Ellender.

I found a possible marriage for her
March 1875, Abraham Michael Stillwell, looking at the 1881, I checked out both males on that page, his wife is an Eliza, the others was the Caroline on the same page.  An assumption I know....
in the 1881
RG11/79 folio 4 p2 ED18

Abraham Stilwell, Head, Mar, 26, b c 1855 Laborer, b Middlesex Chelsea
Eliza Stilwell, Wife, Mar, 26, b c 1855 Laundress, b Middlesex Chelsea
James Stilwell, Son, Unm, 1, b c 1880 b Middlesex Chelsea


next problem
can't find them on the 1891   
but I have found this family at 18 Robert St London
St.George Hanover Square
A.Stilwell, Head b c 1855, Pimlico
E Stilwell  Wife b c 1855 Pimlico
J Stilwell, Son, b 1879 Pimlico
A Stilwell Son b 1887 Pimlico
Katherine Stilwell b 1890 Pimlico
W Stilwell b 1889 Pimlico

Do you think this is my Eliza and family?
I think I have found James on the 1901 but no sign of Abraham and Eliza

Help!
Newbie

[Tati]

Ni Newbie,

I think the 1891 family look very likely.
Try RG13/90 67 24 for 1901.

Tanja 

[newbie]

Hello Tanja,
that's great  you solved 2 problems 1 to go!

The family in 1901 are at the same address as in 1891, so definitely my family, A.Stilwell becomes Abraham Stillwell  ..
just found a death of Eliza  Elizabeth Stillwell Jun 1897 so that looks likely.

did you have any luck in the 1871?
thanks so much,
Newbie

[Tati]

Unfortunately not 

[newbie]

Tanja,

thanks very much for your help,
Newbie

[Arranroots]

Hello both 

There is a George & Sarah ELLENDER with a daughter Elizabeth E, but she is born in Greenwich in 1846 and is the eldest of the children.  Living in Greenwich, father's occupation hairdresser.

RG10/756

kind regards, arranroots  

[Tati]

Hi Sue,

Glad you are going to help.
If I am right in thinking that the family is at RG9/54 101 14 in 1861, then I think I can see mother Sarah and siblings at Chelsea in 1871 - RG10/75 11 14 . Only Eliza E missing 

[newbie]

Hi, this is the family in 1861
 RG9/54 folio 101 page 14

George Ellender, Head, Mar, 37, Labourer, b Kent Wingham
Sarah Ellender, Wife, Mar, 30, b Middlesex Chelsea
Eliza E?  Ellender, Daur, 7, Scholar, b Middlesex Paddington
Charles Ellender, Son, 6, Scholar, b Middlesex Chelsea
Emily E? Ellender, Daur, 4, Scholar, b Middlesex Chelsea
Sarah A Ellender, Daur, 3, Scholar b Middlesex Chelsea
George J Ellender, Son, 3mths, b Middlesex, St.Margarets Westminster

and in 1871,
RG10/75   folio 11 page 14

Sarah Ellender, 43, W(?wid), Head, Charwoman, b Midx, Holborne
Charles Ellender, 16, son, Apprentice, b Midx Chelsea
Emily Ellender, 14, daur, b Chelsea
George Ellender, 10, son, b Chelsea
Sarah Ellender 13, daur, b Chelsea

but I cannot trace Eliza E Ellender in the 1871, I've searched all sorts of combinations...
thanks for all the help and advice,
Newbie

[Arranroots]

No joy so far

Nearest so far is an Eliza E LAYLAND, but that would mean the enumerator misheard & she was born Millwall.

May have to come back to this later

A