Sussex Marriage Index shows that John was a widower when he married Ann Day in 1720. There is a marriage to Ann Tye in Lewes in 1710 and Sarah Gailop in Peasmarch in 1708 and one earlier in Balcombe to Elizabeth Win, 1704.
Richard Dray of Worth married Mary Ridly widow in Horsham 4 Jun 1698. The only other Richard Dray to a Mary Benly is much earlier, Herstmonceux 1669
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