Hi Sue/Glen
I probably should have given all the details (tis a lazy Sunday here

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so here they are now - it may help you find the all Wilkins in 1841 as there seem to be 2 uncles involved. I think I may have found the birth of Thomas - Dec Qtr 1845 - listed as "Male". I thought this may be if his mother died giving birth - they didn't name the babe for awhile - but I can't find the death of a female Wilkins in Maidstone for that or the next quarter
1851
Edward Wilkins 33 Loose Kent Head Bricklayer
Elizabeth Wilkins 30 Et Farleigh Kent, England Wife
Richd Obey 68 Et Malling Kent Lodger Ag lab
Ed Wilkins 7 Loose Kent Nephew
Loose Hill Loose Kent HO107/1616 455/10
1861
Edward Wilkins 42 Loose Kent Head Inn keeper
Elizabeth Wilkins 40 East Farleigh Kent, England Wife
Richd Obey 77 East Malling Kent Father in Law Ag lab (77

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Ed Wilkins 17 Loose Kent Nephew bricklayer
Loose Rd Paper Making (Arm)? Loose Kent RG9/499 62/5
That address could be the name of the Inn? paper Maker Arms ?1851
George Wilkins 42 Loose, Kent Head Brick layer
Mary Wilkins 36 Loose, Kent Wife Dress Maker
Thomas Wilkins 5 Marden, Kent Nephew
Mill (or Nill) St Loose Kent HO107/1616 472/14
Can't see Thomas in 1861 - he is not with George and Mary - Mary says she is born Marsden in 1861, so I guess it is near Loose. George 51, Mary 46 - living Loose Hill.
Trish