Hi Siobhán
Better late than never:
Henry Jerram baptised 11 Apr 1782 in Eling, son of James
This is the closest I can find for Anne
Anne Paskens, daughter of John & Mary, baptised 23 May 1774 Southampton St Mary, of Itchin Ferry
Henry & Ann married 26 Sep 1802 in Eling
I spotted one baptism :
Henry Jerrem, son of Henry & Ann 6 Feb 1803, Southampton St Mary Extra
Nell