Hi Gadget,
I did try the IGI - only 2 Jane Wakes, one in Glasgow, the other in Midlothian and a Janet in Fife. I haven't used Scotlandspeople before.
The marriage was definitely Haughton le Skerne - 13 May 1810, according to the IGI.
I haven't tried the 1841 census yet either - apart from not knowing where she was in 1841, although I suspect Haughton le Skerne, it will probably only tell me she wasn't born in that county.
One for the too hard basket for now, I think :-)
Best wishes
Jan