Thanks for the information. I do have an Ancestry password but have never used it to access someone else's information. I'll have to investigate.
I can tell you something about Fanny's life. The family story I was told is that Thomas Slade was disowned by his family for getting the maid pregnant. By checking censuses, and gaining information from distant Slade contacts, it seems that the couple did conceive a child out of wedlock but married and went on to have several more children.
The Slades had been fairly well-to-do farmers in Fownhope, but fell on hard times due to mismanagement by Thomas's father, Henry. They moved to a smaller farm house at some stage and Henry's children had to take up trades,Thomas becoming a journeyman bricklayer. (Some branches of the family are still successful in that line of work.)
One of my cousins told me that our Grandad, Tom Slade, was born on the kitchen table at Bowen's Farm, Fownhope. It looks as though Thomas and Fanny, with 2 small daughters already, had gone back home looking for support and forgiveness. They didn't get much, by the look of it. My cousin says that they were allowed to stay until Fanny had recovered from the birth and then sent on their way.
No doubt there's more to the story than that, but these are the fragments that have filtered down. (I'm the 19th of 20 grandchildren of Tom Slade, and some of my older picked up a lot more family information in their childhoods than I did.)Tom died when I was small.
Bowens is now a country house hotel/guest house. on the main street of the village. I haven't stayed there but have seen it - quite tarted up now- and tried to imagine how poor Fanny felt giving birth on the kitchen table. My own memories of the Slades are full of warmth; children everywhere, always loved, never neglected, always room for one more. The story of Grandad's birth doesn't seem to fit, somehow, but I suppose families change from one generation to the next.
Regards whatever I want to know, I'm interested in female surnames (why should they be forgotten?) jobs, religion and politics, if any.
Jill