Hi,
Harv hasnt been on Rootschat since Dec 2007 but if the email address is still the same should get notification of your posting.
Looking at Census entries and FreeBMD;
Alexander ROSS Married Mary Maria DEFTY, Marriage Reg June 1853, Sunderland, 10a 418
1861 Census they have Children;
HENRY J 1854
EDWARD 1855
THOMAS 1857
WILLIAM O 1861 (2mths old on Census)***
EDWARD Ross Christened 16 April 1855, Bishopwearmouth to ALEXANDER and MARY MARIA
Others;
WILLIAM OLIVER Ross 20 Sept 1863, Chapelry of Deptford, Deptford, Durham. Parents ALEXANDER and MARYN DEFTY
ANNIE MARIA Ross 20 Sept 1863 same place, to ALEXANDER and Mary Maria DEFTY (may have died)
(Source Familysearch.Org)
ALEXANDER Ross Christened 25 Feb 1829, St Hilda, South Shields, Durham
Parents EDWARD/ELIZABETH
Siblings;
Bishopwearmouth;
THOMAS 19 Jan 1817
JOHN 04 April 1819
GEORGE 17 March 1822
MARGARET 09 March 1823
This may be Edward in 1851;
1851 Census
7 James Street,
Bishopwearmouth, Durham
HO107/2395/417/43
Edward ROSS, 63, Head, Mar, Shipwright Journeyman, born Benton, Northumberland
Elizabeth, 62, Wife, Mar, born South Shields, Durham (indexed as 42, image is 62)
Edward, 15, Son, Shipwright Apprentice, born Sunderland, Durham
Looks like correct Census;
Edward ROSS Married Elizabeth OLIVER 13 February 1816, Bishop Wearmouth, Durham