Thanks Syd,
Yes William Thomas Menhennet was my great grandfather, his wife Elizabeth (obviously) my great grandmother. We were thrilled earlier this year to find their grave in a cemetery in Glasgow. It had been overgrown for many years but has now been cleared, to some degree.
I'm still curious about the death of Robert Isaac (or Lally) Menhennet, and something that you mentioned in your previous message could be of significance. You wrote that Robert Isaac Menhennet born 1844 died 1939 in an accident at Sunderland. Now I'm sure that date is wrong, I have it that he died in 1884 of heart disease. So is the person who died at Sunderland his father, also Robert, born 1818? He was a ship's captain and his death is rumoured to have been the result of an accident or other mishap on a ship.
No death certificate has been found for him, but perhaps his name was so badly mis-spelt, perhaps by shipmates, that we are all failing to recognise it.
We believe that this man (born 1818) was christened Robert Lally (or Lilley) Menhennet, and that the name Robert Isaac was erroneously attributed to him by his grandson Alfred Menhennet when he registered the death of his father William T Menhennet in Glasgow in 1922. Alfred was only born in 1902 (in Hartlepool) so any information he had was second or third hand.
The mother of Robert Menhennet (born 1818) was Mary Lilley, I'm sure he was christened Robert Lally (or Lilley)Menhennet, after his mother.
Are you able to tell me the source of your information that "Robert Menhennet died in Sunderland in an "accident"? And do you have a definite date for this event? It could be that this is the information I am looking for.
Thank you so much for taking the trouble to post these messages, it's very helpful, and it would be great to be able to solve this mystery at last.
Billie