here she is with her family in 1871 - dont know if you have this at all but I will try and work from there - I am also researching Gibbins/Gibbons and they are a very elusive bunch!!! I have looked at all the ellens born in suffolk with no success various spellings ages families etc with no success - sorry!
Ruth
Alice Gibbons 7 Ipswich, Suffolk, England Daughter Ipswich St Mary at the Elms Suffolk
Arthur Hy Gibbons 9 Ipswich, Suffolk, England Son Ipswich St Mary at the Elms Suffolk
Ellen Gibbons 2 Ipswich, Suffolk, England Daughter Ipswich St Mary at the Elms Suffolk
Emma E Gibbons 11 Ipswich, Suffolk, England Daughter Ipswich St Mary at the Elms Suffolk
George Ed Gibbons 5 Ipswich, Suffolk, England Son Ipswich St Mary at the Elms Suffolk
Robert Thos Gibbons 10 months Ipswich, Suffolk, England Son Ipswich St Mary at the Elms Suffolk
Susannah Gibbons 35 Woolpit, Suffolk, England Wife Ipswich St Mary at the Elms Suffolk
Walter Gibbons 34 Crowfield, Suffolk, England Head Ipswich St Mary at the Elms Suffolk
RG10/1752 Folio 75