Now, Janet Callander. We know her father was Robert and was living with her in 1851, as a widower. I don't think she was illegitimate. Again I think we have two Robert Callander's walking about. One certainly was married to Janet Lorimer. The other I now think was Janet's father and was married to a Mary XXX - Manson from Janet's death cert., although I'm not 100% on that.
I have found an Ebenezer Callander on the censuses. The name is unusual and the fact that it is also Callander stands out. His death cert. has his parents as Robert Callander (Farm Servant, as the 1851 Census entry with Janet) and mother Mary McDowell. This is Ebenezer and family in the 1851 Census, note he shows the same birthplace as the Robert Callander Snr that we have also in 1851 with Janet:
CALLANDER Agnes, daughter of Ebenezer Callander, age 12, b. Crossmichael Kb
CALLANDER David, son of Ebenezer Callander, age 5, b. Crossmichael Kb
CALLANDER Ebenezer, head, Blacksmith Master, age 36, b. Irongray Kbt
CALLANDER Jane, wife, age 36, b. Crossmichael Kb
CALLANDER Jane, daughter of Ebenezer Callander, age 1, b. Crossmichael Kb
CALLANDER Janet, daughter of Ebenezer Callander, age 3, b. Crossmichael Kb
CALLANDER Mary, daughter of Ebenezer Callander, age 7, b. Crossmichael Kb
CALLANDER Robert, son of Ebenezer Callander, age 10, b. Crossmichael Kb
TWINAME David, Blacksmith apprentice, age 17, b. Buittle Kbt
Address: Village of Clarebrand(863)/ Household No: 3/14/ Household No: 3/14
This is Ebenezer Callander's IGI entry which is correct in respect of the parents and death details:
Ebenezer Callender Birth: About 1815 Scotland
Death: 03 DEC 1891 Dumfries, Scotland
Parents: Father: Robert Callender Mother: Mary McDowall
So, Ted, McDowell or Manson? Who knows at this stage! It's not unusual for people reporting deaths to get some of the names wrong, even children reporting the deaths of g/parents. Robert and Mary X probably had more children, I suppose this would be the way to go to try to verify the McDowell/Manson issue.
Regards.
Monica