Hi Vicky,
Nice to hear from you, have to admit that I have not been doing a lot on the family tree stuff over this last year, family commitments have been numerous, sadly.
My Paynes all started in the Ingrave/East Horndon area. Two years ago my sister and I travelled to Essex where we met a couple of second cousins, one we knew from years ago, the other we had never met. We travelled to Ingrave and actually stayed in an old inn in Horndon on the Hill.
John Payne and Susan Gibson had I believe seven children. John was born in 1790 Susan in 1792 and they married in the parish church of Ingrave and West Horndon on October 4th 1814. This I have from Parish Records.
John Payne's parents were John and Elizabeth but I have no more information about them than their names.
I have their children, again from the parish records, as being Susanna b. 1816 Eliza b. 1818 John b. 1820 he was baptised Jan 1820 in the All Saints church East Horndon Thomas b. 1821 William (my ancestor) b. 1823 Joseph b. 1826 and Edward b. 1828.
According to my records I have John 1820 marrying Mary Ann (?) b. 1831 and having three children John b.1861 Richard b.1863 and Alice b. 1870
Now this sort of matches with what you have, but I have to admit that the name Meen is a new one on me.
I do hope that I have not got it wrong, but in this game you can never be really sure can you.
I am quite sure that there were a number of Payne families in that area, and I am positive that all of them were called John at one time or another. Just to make life simple. But there cannot have been all that many Susan Gibsons who married a John Payne I would not have thought. Can you let me know where the Meens come into the picture?
And just when I thought that I had it all figured!
Strangely enough, I have just changed my wallpaper on the computer to show the church at Fobbing
Essex where a number of my ancestors are buried. Whilst on our trip to Fobbing my second cousin, my sister and myself found ourselves sitting in a cottage which had once been lived in by our ggg grandfather sipping coffee with the present owners and looking at the original deeds for the cottage. My ancestor had run this tiny cottage as a post office whilst working as the local builder and bringing up I forget exactly how many children at the same time. Remarkable.
I hope that this information gives you pleasure and food for thought.
Whereabouts are you, obviously not Essex from what you say.
Best regards
Lindy