Hi Casalguidi,
Thank you for the reply.
I have George Groves the son's marriage certificate and it states father as being George Groves - Farmer Deceased!!!!
George the Son was a fisherman and lost at Sea in 1883.
I have searched upto 6 years either side of their said birth year and cannot find any of the 3 boys being registered for Dartford. Infact if I remember correctly couldnt find any three registered same place.
I am sure that a few years ago I read where registering a birth wasnt compulsory until about 1875. A lot of births werent registered specially illegitimate ones.
I have a Mary Groves the Mother (I think) going back to 1841, but no sign of John or Henry. George, Henry and John are still names given to all the male lines of my family even now.
I have been with this family over 2 years on and off and still getting nowhere, lol.
Once again
Thank you all so much
Lynn