Hello Jo, and welcome to Rootschat.
I'm delighted to meet another Fairey researcher (and I'm not the only one on Rootschat!). Certainly there are Bedfordshire connections in my crew, but most of mine are from Huntingdonshire.
I first came across this family when I found a Joseph Fairey marrying a girl from my own home town in the north of England in 1876, and was intrigued to find out where he fitted into the picture. Since Joseph is a common name in the family, this took some searching, but I finally placed him as the son of Richard and Jane in Brampton. I found a Richard in 1841, but not with Benjamin and the rest of his children, but he did have a brother John who was living with Richard and Jane in 1871. I tracked these back to the children of Benjamin, who was born in Halifax (there is a Yorkshire Fairey clan, too) c1801. Like you, I found his two marriages. However, I don't have Richard's baptism to confirm that he was definitely Benjamin's son.
After all this, I was unable to make a connection with my own Faireys. It was just curiosity which led me on.
If you would like to see all the information I gathered on this family and talk about the other Faireys in Beds & Hunts, please send me your email address in a Personal Message. You can do this by clicking on the scroll or S-shaped symbol on the left hand side of the page under my name. No one else will be able to read the message, so your address is safe from spam.
Regards,
Gill