Hi Carol80,
Going based on the ages only, the only Thomas is not with Phebe. Here is the transcription:
South dean, Bolington, Stockbury, Kent
Thomas Attwood, 55, Ag Lab, Y
Sarah Attwood, 50, Y
Thomas Attwood, 8, Y
Living next door: Jesse Attwood & family.
If I have this correct, John b1807, is also in Stockbury.
Let me know if this may be correct or if we need to look further. Perhaps it would help if you list what you know about John's generation. Do you have siblings names?
Nancy