Thanks!
Sorry it took a while to reply everyone, I've been caught up in moving to a new city.
Thanks for the death date for James, I didn't have that.
Most of the info I have on the Mulhalls comes from censuses and birth records and from the time in which James' son Michael owned owned the Village Inn in Grafton. They were a very photogenic family; we have lots of pictures of them posing in front of the Inn.
James and Ellen had 10 children that I know of - possibly one more that died young: Kate, Michael, Arthur, Nicholas, James, John, Thomas, Patrick and Mary.
Michael married Roseann Dunnigan. They had 12 children, 2 of which died in infancy. The others are: May, Rose, Mary, Arthur, Harold, Ursula, Annetta, Patronella, Pauline and Eileen.
And yeah, census records are awful for dates, especially the 1881 one. I think Michael has a different birth year in all the censuses I've looked up from 1881 to 1911. And since he had a late birthday (Dec 31) it was probably especially easy to confuse.
Oh, and it's very probable that James came over with some siblings. I've heard of a Mary and a Michael, both of whom married Bulgers. I have found this Michael in Cobourg records:
Michael Mulhall b.? d.1870
married Catherine Bulger b.1826 d.1894
children:
Julia b.1854
Thomas b.1858 (wife unknown, children Flossie, Frank, Joseph and Theresa)
Mary b.1860
James b.1866
Bessie b.1869