Don't worry about being to enthusiastic, every little helps as far as I am concerned, I think sometimes an extra set of eyes can find something that is staring another one in the face but misses it.
I am also on the trail of George and Jane Wilkin, Jane was nee Matthams born 1863 Little Watham, she is at home with John her father on the 1881, he a widower, Jane married George Wilkin in 1885 but cannot find her on any other census YET?, isn't it frustrating ?
Take care
regards
Louisa Maud