Yes it's the one behind the Little Cherubs. The one down by Tesco's (Bethlehem) is lovely and clear but I couldn't open the gate, although people passing told me it was always open - well it wasn't yesterday!
The council run cemeteries are, as we've said before, beautifully kept and it's fairly easy to find the graves you want - the problems start with the smaller church yards and in particular, the chapelyards. Many of them have very poorly kept records (if they have any at all) and even when you can walk around them without losing a leg, or your mind, you can still draw a blank.
You find a lot of stones which have been laid face down because of safety issues, and it can be very difficult to find out who they are.
I photograph the war graves for the War Graves Project and sometimes I am not given a number or even a direction and have to check every grave reading all of them to find the right name. (if it is a recognisable war grave then obviously it's easy, but some are ordinary stones and can have me searching for hours).
The best advice I can give you is wear sturdy shoes, thick clothes, gardening gloves if necessary and put your patient head on, because sometimes it's frustrating beyond words.
If you really can't find a grave you are searching for, then there is always someone to ask and they are usually very helpful; the vicar, minister, secretary or warden, to name a few.
Bev.
