Hi Kate,
No doubt you wouldn't mind buying the booklet but it would be great if you could get the answer more speedily!
Harking back to the names on the gravestone, if I were you I'd probably be following up on
ScotlandsPeople :
The two names where the deaths occurred in the time of Statutory Registration:
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Margaret PITTENDRIGH in 1862*
Alexander PITTENDRIGH in 1863And also:
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1861 and 1851 censuses (when both of the above were still alive).
As I mentioned earlier, a free search refining the parameters finds that Margaret PITTENDRIGH who died in 1862 was aged 52 - whether she's the one on the gravestone ...
I mentioned that there were two 1863 deaths for an Alexander PITTENDRIGH. I've just refined the parameters further and find that one was aged 24, and the other was aged 79 - the older Alexander was in the district of St Nicholas. So the older one might well be Ann's father Alexander!! But of course, he might not ...
I've also gone back to the 1841 census on FreeCEN at:
http://www.freecen.org.ukand find what
might well be that Alexander in St Clements, Aberdeen (note the spelling of the name). The age (in 1841 ages were rounded down to the nearest 5) fits well with the older Alexander's death in 1863, and the occupation is not unlikely.
PETTENDRIGH Alexander, 55, Wright
Do Helen, 40
Do Margt., 30
Do Jas., 4
And two boys with surname BAIN - Wm. 15 and Geo. 13 - and a female servant.
All except Helen born in Aberdeenshire; Helen born elsewhere in Scotland.
So I was thinking that Alexander
might well have re-married after the death of Mary/May MILNE in 1834.
A search in the IGI on the FamilySearch site finds the following possibility:
Alexander PITTENDRIGH/Helen DUNCAN, marriage, 19 May 1836, St Nicholas, Aberdeen, ABD (ABD, incidentally is the Chapman Code abbreviation for Aberdeenshire - you can Google for Chapman Codes)
And the following:
James PITTENDRIGH bap 19 Dec 1837, St Nicholas, Aberdeen, ABD, parents Alexander PITTENDRIGH & Helen DUNCAN.
I also wondered whether the BAIN boys were children of Helen's from a previous marriage. The following looks like a possibility:
William BAIN, bap 19 Apr 1826, St Nicholas, Aberdeen, ABD, parents Gilles BAIN & Helen DUNEN (sic)
Anyway, if the Alexander PITTENDRIGH who died in 1863
is the father of your Ann that would be great as, with his death certificate, you might well get back another generation.
Regards,
JAP