I admit it

I am getting very confused

The 1864 death of Alexander Cowie Bullen XXnior (almost looks like Junior), drowned at sea, shows him as age 40 (no other details on it relating to parents/wife etc - reported by the procurator fiscal)
The 1870 death of Margaret JAPPY Cowen, age 47, shows her as widow of Alexander Cowie, fisherman. Parents James Jappy and Mary Cowie
This looks a likely christening entry for her, actual extract from the OPRs on IGI:
MARGT. JAPPIE Christening: 02 FEB 1825 Rathven, Banff, Scotland
Parents:JAS. JAPPIE MARY COWIE
There is a marriage between an Alexander Cowie and Margaret Jappie on 04 OCT 1857 Rathven, Banff, Scotland. Parents showing for this Margaret Jappie on the MC match the christening entry and death cert.
Both show as
widowers. Alexander age 45, parents William Cowie (deceased) and Elspeth Cowie. Margaret age 33, parents as above.
Children showing for them on IGI:
1. MARY COWIE Birth: 27 DEC 1857 Rathven, Banff, Scotland
2. JOHN COWIE Birth: 23 APR 1860 Rathven, Banff, Scotland
3. GEORGE COWIE Birth: 25 MAY 1862 Rathven, Banff, Scotland
4. MARGARET COWIE Birth: 27 OCT 1864 Rathven, Banff, Scotland
This would look to be a likely entry for them in 1861:
Alexander Cowie 51, whitefisher
Margaret Cowie 39
Mary Cowie 3
John Cowie 10 Mo
Address: County Road, Rathven
In respect of the Alexander Cowie with parents James and Elspeth, this looks his christening entry along with siblings:
1. ALEXANDER COWIE Christening: 25 JUL 1809 Rathven, Banff, Scotland
2. WILLIAM COWIE Christening: 23 SEP 1811 Rathven, Banff, Scotland
3. HELEN COWIE Christening: 08 JAN 1814 Rathven, Banff, Scotland
4. JOHN COWIE Christening: 14 DEC 1815 Rathven, Banff, Scotland
5. JANET COWIE Christening: 12 OCT 1817 Rathven, Banff, Scotland
6. MARY COWIE Christening: 12 MAY 1820 Rathven, Banff, Scotland
7. MARGARET COWIE Christening: 11 JUN 1823 Rathven, Banff, Scotland
The approximate age of the Alexander above would (thereabouts) match the census ages for the Alexander first married to Margaret Reid and then Margaret Jappy.
What it doesn't match is the death at age of the Alexander Cowie Bullen in 1864

but given that no other info is included on the cert.....
Monica