Hi Kate,

I am just back from holidays myself and I thank you for responding to my request.
The real subject of interest for me is to locate the ancestors of my g grandfather, John Martin or John G Martin, who according to my late grandmother (who you would never doubt, believe me) was born on November 19, 1864 in Marden, Kent. No more specific details known and the GRO has no record of his birth.
Just this week, I believe I located my John G Martin, age 6, in the 1871 census. At the time of the census, he was living with an extended family in Buffets Row, Ryarsh, Kent but his BP is clearly marked as Marden.
Living him with him at the time was his sister, or aunt (the relationships are confusing), Maria M Martin, then aged 12, BP also Marden, Kent. So in the 1861 census Maria would have been 2 or 3. I now know that Maria married in 1889 (John G Martin, witness) and her father's name was recorded as James Martin on the certificate. This differs from John Martin's marriage certificate (1893) which list his father as John. So Maria may have been his aunt rather than his sister. Either way, James or John or both appear to have faded from the scene by 1871.
So an alternative search of the 1861 census for Marden should find Maria M living hopefully with her immediate family. This may provide clues regarding John (and Maria's) ancestors.
I do not know the Marden parish personally, but I understand it to cover a very large area so I understand your query requesting more specific details.
Unfortunately this is most of what I know about John and Maria Martin in the 1860/1870 timeframe.
I would be very grateful for any information you choose to share with me.
Kind Regards,
James Robinson
Sydney, Australia