Hello Lu
How lovely to come home from a long work day to a reply and a welcome.

Sorry my first request sketchy on the detail you have requested, I thought it was already a bit wordy
To fill you in on a little detail and circumstance.
Aner Charles Cooke born New plymouth NZ 28.7.1901 (recent information gathered) I had very little knowledge of Aner, for nearly 40 years wondered about the first name and where it may have come from, he wasn't a household name though due to marriage breakup. I married his oldest grandchild and regrettably we didn't make an effort to find him before his death 1.10.1976. Discovered that death info recently on Purewa cemetery site, age unknown.
Aner had 3 daughters ( one still living but scant info ) eldest daughter died this year, 1923-2007. We have uncovered a couple of treasures in the form of war photo and letter and a good civilian photo. Really wanting some background of him for his descendants and not offending anyone doing it now.
So gathered Aner birth record New Plymouth NZ 1091 death Auckland NZ and his marriage record 28 Feb 1923 Auckland NZ dissolved 11.8.1953. There is a witness to his marriage Madge Cooke, Takapuna Auckland NZ probable sister

had only heard of a brother with 'no name' as yet!
William Robert Martin Cooke/Cook? and Emma Allen/Allan marriage New Plymouth New Zealand 29.6.1895 Henui Church,witnesses appear to be her parents.
William and Emma must have been living in New Plymouth from their marriage in 1895 to son Aner's birth there in 1901 but anymore than that unknown at present.
Without a chance to go out searching and relying on cert. info. I was hoping someone with more research knowledge than myself might give me a helpful lead or have resources to explore. I have a little credit with BDM Wellington and happy to go there again if I can narrow down a search area. My options there at the moment are to try 1864 and 1871. Any suggestions most welcome. I did hear that William became Superintendent at Napier Prison, don't know years (prison now a hostel I believe) his occupation on Aner's birth is stated as Chief Warden.
I haven't found any deaths other than Aner, all dates are new and interesting, and for New Zealand 1860's fairly 'early'. I do have an 1842 arrival on my own tree. Have found no shipping lists to match Cooke/cook and have trawled through a lot of on line lists.
Thanks
Mare